23.

From a note to myself, that I wrote in the middle of the night, exactly 6 months ago:

"Growing up is realizing that: Life isn't going to show up with a welcome basket. Basket's cost alot. You are not always going to have money. Friends leave. Life choices are not mcqs, rather are open ended. Picking your battles is crucial. One must learn to put aside pride & ask for help. Making mistakes isn't the end of life. Comfort zones can be glass cages. You have to pay taxes. Organizing money & paying your bills are things you need to learn to do. No more naps till after retirement."